Looking for something more spicy? Trust me, this list is vanilla compared to my BDSM Checklist. If you're not sure how to start the conversation with your partner about what turns you on (and what doesn't!), try completing this list yourself and using it as a starting point or book our Couples Pleasure Mapping Workshop for a guided, in-depth exploration experience with your partner! This list isn't something you'd post on your social media or swap with strangers on the street, but if you're looking to understand and develop your own personal relationship with pleasure, or share your fantasies and pleasure preferences with a trusted partner, a Yes/No/Maybe list like this one can be a good place to start. At first glance, (especially if you're not a kinkster) the list is a bit graphic, but it's great for privately exploring your sexual preferences. NO I WILL NOT DO that item under ANY circumstances (a hard limit).Ġ No desire, don't like, will permit if special to Dom (a soft limit).Ģ Willing to do, but has no special appeal.ģ Usually LIKE doing, on an irregular/ occasional basis.Ĥ LIKE doing, would like it on a regular basis.ĥ WILD TURN-ON, would like it as often as possible.We like to think of this list as menu for sexual play. So, we've made one specifically for Scarleteen readers including all the issues you ask us about and we've talked about together over the years. They've been used for a long time by sexuality educators, sex therapists, communities, couples and individuals, and they can be seriously useful tools. ![]() * I will do with current sex partner only. Yes, No and Maybe lists aren't something we invented. Unless otherwise stated, the Sub is the recipient/target of the activity. There is intentionally some overlap between categories. For example under diapers you might wish to distinguish between " wetting" and " soiling".
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